Use The Handle, Not The Crowbar
He's refusing his books, avoiding his lessons, dragging his feet when it is time to memorize, read, write, revise, sit, listen. You see the parent getting tired, the teacher getting frustrated, the child becoming slippery and evasive, and the easy conclusion is: This child does not want to learn. But is that true? The more I think about teaching children, the more I feel that it is very rare to find a child who is truly not interested in anything. I'm not even sure such a thing exists! A child may be uninterested in your lesson. He may be uninterested in the book you gave him. He may be uninterested in the way you are explaining it. He may be uninterested in sitting still while someone speaks at him as if his mind is a cupboard where facts are supposed to be placed. But uninterested in everything? That is hard to believe. Look at children carefully. A child who cannot sit for ten minutes with a worksheet may spend an hour building something with tiny pieces. A child who forget...