Stop complaining to the people!
As Sufyān Ath-Thawrī said: حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ، نَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ الحَرْبِيُ، نَا أَبُو حَذَيْفَةَ؛ قَالَ: رَأَى الثَّوْرِيِّ رَجُلًا عِنْدَ قَوْمٍ يَشْكُو ضِيقَهُ، فَقَالَ لَهُ الثَّوْرِيُّ: يَا هَذَا! شَكَوْتَ مَنْ يَرْحَمُكَ إِلَى مَنْ لا يَرْحَمُك! Aḥmed reported that Ibrāhīm Al-Ḥarbī narrated that Abū Ḥudhayfah said, "Ath-Thawrī saw a man sitting with people complaining about his difficult situation, and he said to him, 'Hey you! You complained about the One who has mercy for you to the ones who do not have mercy for you." [al-Mujālasah wa Jawāhir al-ʿIlm (al-Dīnawarī)] The One putting you through these difficulties is the One who has Mercy for you. The hardships He puts you through make you to return to Him — this is in itself a mercy. So do not be from those who respond to trials by turning to the people with complaints. Because in reality, such a person is complaining about the One who put him in this tribulation. And this is the reality every time we co...